Monday, May 15, 2017
One of my favorite things about the minimalism mentality and way of life is the focus on experiences above the material things. Travel is something that has always been important to me. Ever since I was a kid, I've traveled and always found joy in packing those bags and headed to a new place. A couple of months ago I took a giant leap and did a solo trip to Germany. I visited Munich specifically. I booked all of my excursions from home and stayed at an amazing Airbnb on the famous Maximilianstrasse. The entire 9 days felt like a dream come true. Of course I was nervous to go by myself to the other side of the world. Especially with being a mom now. Leaving my munchkin behind was hard and a bit nerve wrecking, to be honest. But, once I settled into "my" Munich apartment, I felt a freedom I had not felt since I was a teenager visiting my grandparents in Nicaragua every summer. There was this sense of time not mattering and having nowhere to go and nothing to do. Wow. What an amazing feeling.
Minimalism is all about attaining that same sense of freedom, but in your everyday existence. I would highly recommend a solo trip of your own. Even if just to a nearby town. Plan it all from home and pay it all ahead of time. This way, life is as simple as a fiddle once you get there. All you'll need to do then is enjoy the moment and be in the now. Amazing, right?
Have you ever solo traveled? What was your experience?
Friday, April 21, 2017
If there is one thing in life that is constant, it is change. Opportunities come into our lives as quickly as they dissipate and sometimes we can get caught in the crossfire of indecision. One of the benefits of living a simpler life is that it provides us with room to think. Clutter need not only be physical. It can be mental as well and it seems many of us tend to overlook that fact. We may de-clutter and simplify our outside lives, but inside we are still living a world full of chaos and compromises. Take an inventory of your inside life today. Look away from the physical clutter and re-evaluate your mental clutter. How many things are you worried about that you needn't be? Is there anything you can accomplish right this very second and therefore move it out of the way? Pick the path of least resistance and watch as the world just becomes filled with more ease. Let go and let God. One of my favorite inspirational phrases. Let Go(d).
Tuesday, April 18, 2017
It has been a while, hasn't it? I haven't written since September and boy, oh boy do I miss it. But, sometimes, life does get in the way and priorities shift. Life has definitely been busy, hectic, chaotic and everything in between in the past 7 months. But, I'm hoping to begin writing here more consistently in the coming months. It's important to get back to the simpler things in life and appreciate life and its challenges for what they are... learning opportunities. I am facing lots of mountains at the moment, but my faith in God reminds me that there is no mountain He cannot move. It's a good reminder for today. Not just for me, but hopefully, for you too. Have a great Tuesday and I look forward to writing more and more and sharing life's journey with you all once again.
Thursday, September 22, 2016
Wow. I've been missing for some time now, haven't I? I have been so caught up in home and work life that I've neglected to write. But, I do miss it. Today I was thinking about values. Not necessarily moral or religious values. But, just the word "value." What do we value as a society and what do we value as individuals? One of the things that appeals to me the most about minimalism is that it is not a "one size fits all" lifestyle. The value one minimalist places on a particular thing can differ significantly from another minimalist. That's the beauty of it. It's such a flexible mentality. It really is all about values.
Some of us value traveling the world, while others value being settled and having roots. Some of us value having 100 possessions, while others value a nice home filled with beautiful things. The key is to not feel suffocated by our stuff. If it doesn't bring us joy and happiness, then it needs to go. It really is that simple. Minimalism, in my opinion, is not just about stuff. It's about what those things mean to us. Plain and simple. Value.
What are you valuing today? Do you need to reassess?
Thursday, September 1, 2016
If you're relatively new to minimalism I first want to say, "Congratulations and good for you!" Secondly I'd say... "don't give up." Any kind of lifestyle change will be just that... a LIFE STYLE CHANGE. In other words, it'll be exciting at the very beginning when it's all new and you're just learning about it, but the newness will eventually fade. Once this happens, you'll either keep at it or you will revert back to your old ways of existing in the world. So, how can you stop the "old you" from making a re-appearance? By recognizing, accepting, and embracing your new "normal." Do you realize that you never question getting dressed in the morning? I mean, you may struggle with finding something to wear. But, you don't actually question the act of getting dressed, right? That's because to you, it's your "normal." We weren't born with clothes on, so why is it not ever questioned? Because, at some point, our parents just kept at it and it became our new "normal." Now, we don't even think about it. That's the ultimate goal with a minimalist lifestyle. If you keep at it, it will just "be." It will be who you are. You won't have to think about it, you will just do things as they've always been done. First off, you won't just robot your way to the mall and walk around aimlessly because you're "bored" and have nothing else to do. You won't go into a store, buy a top that's "kinda" cute and not think twice about it because in the end, "it's only $4.99." Instead, you will be so conscious of the world around you that you will instantly know and recognize that there's a lot more where that came from... literally, and that there was probably so much human suffering involved so that you could have a $5 top, that it would blow most people's mind. So, the thought of not thoughtfully consuming something isn't even a possibility any more. It just is. It's the kind of conscious consumer that you are, not that you are trying to be. How does that happen? Consistency. Keep at it and someday, it will be second nature. It will just be.
Monday, August 15, 2016
As summer starts to come to an end, people's lives begin to get back into the groove of everyday life. If you're a parent, then the kids are now returning to school and perhaps life is getting a bit "easier." If you're a teacher, it's definitely the other way around. As I've returned to work and am now right back in the swing of things, I had to take a moment to reflect on how incredibly busy I am (hence disappearing from the writing for the past two weeks). Not only am I back to teaching all day, every day, but I am also coaching cross country this year and volunteering with local organizations. Aside from that, of course, I am a mom and wife first and foremost. That alone could take up all my time. So, when is this kind of busy... okay? Honestly? I wish I was less busy. But, what keeps me going is that all that I do is by choice and because I love it. Isn't that what minimalism is all about? Bringing out that which adds value to our life?
Teaching is not just a profession for me. It's my life's calling. Coaching (although I'm new to it) is something that I'm really loving because it is, in essence, an extension of teaching. Volunteering and giving back to my community brings joy and value to my life. Being a mom is the most exhausting of them all, but the sweetest and most amazing thing I get to do. Would I change any of it? No way. That's the beauty of choosing to live a more intentional life. It is about choosing deliberately what will take up our time and avoiding letting life happen to us by chance.
What can you intentionally cut out of your life today? What could you add that brings value to it? Are you living mindfully?
Friday, July 29, 2016
Staying motivated. In my opinion? Is harder than getting motivated. In my personal experience I never have trouble getting motivated about something new. An exercise routine; a new diet plan; a new planning system; a new organization system; you fill in the blank. I'm one of those people that gets interested in something and then researches everything there is to know about it and then I want to do it full force! No transition period. Just go! This is great for getting things started. But, one of my biggest flaws? I get bored... fast. Once the "newness" wears off... I wander. My mind goes to all the other things I could be doing. I dare say the only thing that has not happened to me with is my teaching career (thank goodness) and my relationships (thank goodness again!). In those two areas I am 100% committed and boredom isn't a problem. But, anything else? Poof! Excitement gone. Boredom sets in. The challenge has been met... and I'm ready to move on to the next thing. Sounds so flighty, I know.
So, how can we re-motivate ourselves in an area where it doesn't serve us to get un-motivated? For example, an area such as fitness and healthy living. We are bombarded daily by the new thing that is going to make us thinner, more toned, more energetic, etc... The first day of the year comes and we see hundreds of folks crammed at the gym and running the streets. But, come March and the streets start looking lonelier and lonelier, as does the gym. I saw this very thing happen last year as I trained for the Chicago Marathon. At the very beginning of 2015, my usual running course was packed with new faces. It was very exciting! New people to see. Great! But, a couple of months later? I seemed to be the only one out there sometimes. What happens? What helps me stay motivated when the bout of un-motivation sets in?
I'll let you in on a little secret. I don't usually "enjoy" running. What I do enjoy, however, is the sense of accomplishment that comes after a run. I always feel awesome then! But, during the run? Not so much. If anything, I'm cursing the day I was born more than I should and consistently asking myself why in the world I'm putting myself through it. So. Why lace up and go anyway? Because I focus on the end result and not so much the process. Yes, I do, sometimes, enjoy the run. Especially when the weather is beautiful and I'm not feeling like a mobile sweat bucket. But, let's face it. I live in Florida. It's hot here. Today? I ran 4 miles in 102 degree weather. 102! Not kidding. It was pure hell. But, I set a goal to run the NYC Marathon this coming November and the goal is what keeps the mundane feeling at bay. I don't feel bored because I'm working towards accomplishing something new! Running through NYC in one of the world's largest marathons!
Moral of the story? Set goals. Give yourself something to look forward to. Make the means to an end new again and renew your motivation.
What area have you been lacking motivation in today? How can you re-spark it? What goal can make it feel "new" again?